Spice Up that Love Life: 18+

Spice It Up!

You have been in your relationship for Months/ Years now, the spark is still there but the length of time invested in your relationship have everything looking and feeling like Deja Vu. This is for you, Just a few of my own tips to spice up your love life.

Role Playing:

The inner children in us love to still pretend to be someone else. Although in mental medicine  there's a disease for such things but in the bedroom it just might be what you need.
Pretending to be someone else can trigger your inner freak!
Ladies sometimes just change a wig and giving your self a nick name could change the way you preform but with each character give her a special trick that the others don't do.
 
For Example: Buy a Red Wig. Every time you wear that wigs your name is Cherry, and Cherry is an Exotic Dancer.

Keep switching them up introducing each character and special talents a little at a time in know time your lover should be requesting certain characters. If your a Guy this would work with uniforms such has( The cable guy, Fire Man, and etc)

As a couple both of you guys can act out a sexual skit between the two of you.

"The L-Word"  

Lingre happens to be every woman's best weapon in the bedroom. Rather you have just started to get busy or have been getting busy for awhile now.
Problem is most women tend to no longer take the time out to dress up for their man anymore.
After being in a relationship for awhile many just simply wear their night wear and then get busy.
So to spice it up by all means go to Victoria Secrets and for my Bigger Girls surf the web for a cute little outfit. If your going this route also spend the time and get your hair, makeup, and nail laid.

"There ain't nothing wrong with extras in the bedroom"

When I say extras by no means am I talking about another person. (Unless you into that and if so by all means do you)
I'm talking about Toys and Certain food items. Self stimulation has been known and a different yet effective form of foreplay (when done with your partner) don't tap out completely tough it just isn't fair to your lover if you sweat your own perm out but ladies or fellas this is also a way to so your lover what can make you tick.
Food items has always been the base of wonderful foreplay. Warning be very careful of what you use exotic fruit can cause you to break out and nut base spreads could cause an allergic reaction.
Just stick to stuff such has whipped cream and chocolate syrup.

"Switch up Date Night"

Date night for the most part is just going out to dinner, a movie, and or dancing. After so many times those things become boring. Think about your partners likes and hobbies and plan something around that. If your a big timers think about what your partner can't stop talking about and make it happen

For example:

Say that your man is a foodie. Planning a dinner at a Hot Pot location where he can basically cook his own food while you socialize or even planning something where he shows off his cooking skills in front of other during a double date.

Say that your woman is a art freak set up something that involve painting or pottery.

If your lover has expressed interest about vacationing or dinner on the water. There are always party boats  and Virginia Beach " It isn't call the beach for lovers for nothing" with plane tickets it would be the perfect gateway for the weekend  if planned correctly .


Not only are these date nights different from the usual it shows your better half that you pay attention to the things they like to do and have been listening to the things they say they want to do.

I hope these tips helped a little and always remember there's nothing wrong with a little spice when it comes to your love life.


Love You Guys

Petals Falling Until Next Time! XOXO!