Advice For The Ladies.

Ladies here are some truth to help you out in your relationship.

First thing first, Do Not get into a relationship then after awhile let yourself go! Remember that the way you present yourself while your dating or in the "I Like Him" stage is who he is going to fall in love with. Saying that means that don't get sloppy once you get him and stay as true to your natural self as possible in the beginning.
Ya'll know damn well that when he started showing interest in you. You spent the whole damn day before he took you out putting your self together so continue to put yourself together. When you started to get down with that man you made sure you wore those sexy numbers and etc. I can not stress the importance of letting him know how lucky he is every single time he lay his eyes on you.

Cooking, the older folks always said that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Rest assure Grandma knew what she was talking about. No man want to take a woman out to dinner every single day for the rest of his life. So if your in the stage in your relationship. The stage when the both of you are thinking " I want this person in my life" and your trying to get to "I want this person in my life FOREVER". Plan a full course for the man because this is also the stage were he starts to take notes and a lot of times not being able to cook would keep you in the "That's  My Girl Zone" we are all trying to get to that "Wife Zone" with a special someone. If you don't know how to cook, you know someone who does and would be right there with no problem teaching you the basics. We are actually lucky today with all the recipes just a click away. Ladies there's no excuse.

Last but not least. All that superficial crap only cute in the beginning. It lets the man know that you aren't cheap and he has to work for it when it comes to you. Once things shift to something more serious. Stop it! No man wants to feel like he's working to keep his woman, settle for some pizza every now and then instead of always wanting lobster. I'm not saying let him become a total cheaper on you but I am saying tone down a little. See every man as a King and every King is trying to build a Kingdom of his own with the help of a Queen. How can a Kingdom be built if the King only invest in the Queen? Help your man out, Put in work too.
FYI Men like to be spoiled too. I'm Just Saying.

There's a reason why all these beautiful women are being divorced. Just go to show you that a man is attracted to you by your looks but they're other qualities that keep him with you.


Love You Guys!

Petals Falling Until Next Time! XOXO!