Love is an emotion that at everyone at some point experience. Can you be in a relationship with someone your in love with, without sex? Let's say that something happened to your parthner and you can no longer (Get Down) Would you leave or Step on that person? This question is often one I ponder upon and my answer is In no way should sex or the lack of be the reason you throw away someone you truly love.! See love itself is a strong emotion, One that is often uncontrollable it could cause Kings to forfeit their kingdoms and Good Girls to disobey their parents. True Love can fight through anything, but it is rare to find a striving relationship without sex.
Sex is a different story though and for both men and women we tend to feel different about sex. Sex is an act based on physical attraction or urges. For guys its both but its more frequent. Guys literally wake up thinking about sex, throughout the day think about sex, and goes to sleep thinking about sex. Whether it's who they want to bone, how they're gonna get lucky that day, past sexual encounters and etc. So some arent as picky about thier partners.Women are a bit different we think about sex too, but less frequently and its based on attraction to the guy our something he has that we want so we are less likely to except just any partner to satisfy our urges. Keep in mind I'm speaking of average men and women, not promiscuous beings or thots that screw carelessly.
Some people get love and sex confused believe it our not some people actually believe that you have to be in love with a person in order to have sex with that person, some people actually believe that sex would win over someone elses heart. Just because he or she may say sweet things or do acts of love in order to get you in bed. Does not mean they actually love you. A person thats in love with you would not just show love when they expect to get something in return.
Ladies you know, That guy that only contact you at booty call hours to confess so much love for you and somehow the conversation turns into sex talk. He isn't in love with you. He might love you as a person, but he doesnt love you enough to make you an honest woman.
Guys you know that girl thats only wide open for you and loves you when you got things together. That girl is mainly after your possessions instead of whats in your heart. Moral of the story sex is used for many things these days. It's no longer just an act of love. If emotions aren't involved then sex is sex! You can not win someones heart with it and those who believe they can only set themselves up for heatbreak and other emotional issues.
I'm not saying don't have sex, but I am saying to be aware that many time sex is just that. So look at the whole picture before your heart decides to do that stupid thing it likes to do and jump into into it shouldn't. Also if you really what want the guy or girl on a emotional level. Hold out for awhile the chase is more impressive then actually doing a complete home run. Make that person put in that werk for it! I know guys it would be harder for ya'll but you can do it the whole time your holding out study the person of interest and maybe you'll realize how lucky you are you didn't let them go all the way. Emotionless sex is how some unwanted Baby Mommas and Baby Daddies are created.
Hope this helped someone and it was a bunch of babble because I admit to revising and old blog before I delete my old page.
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