For the Fellas! Relationship Advice from a Woman's Point of View

For starters let me start off by saying " I know you guys didn't think that I was just going to come for my ladies" If you did then your wrong. This in no way is trying to bash the male race but I guess both sexes can agree with the fact that we can't really live without the other although we can't understand each other. So instead of making general statements about men I would categorize some things because I am aware of the fact that every guy isn't the same. (Let's Get Into It)

Some of you guys have a bad habit of flashing the success you have by showing off and bragging. Are you aware of the fact that just like with everything else money bring fakeness around you, but somewhere in the minds of many men they mistake the love they gain from women that never paid the attention before the money rolled in as love. Well it's not, I have seen many guys have the little trophy  they flashed to the world and as soon as challenges come those little trophy's walk right out the picture. A lot of those times there's a woman who truly care about them as a person that they over looked yet every time they fall she's there. Wouldn't have been easier on their pockets and their heart in general if they rocked it out with the woman who wanted them when they had absolutely nothing? At least then they would know that she would be there through thick or thin, and put in work with them . So if by chance they lose everything she can pick them  back up. I don't get it, is it really that important to have a brainless bimbo that have good looks on your arm when you have the sweeter things in life. Instead of sticking to the chick that been there and spoiling her with your riches?

Ok, This one is for those Players or those guys who don't know that they are  a player but for some reason find that it's ok to have a woman and mess around with someone else beside her.  Stop it the things that doesn't effect you guys as men  effect us as women. Most of us are vulnerable coming into a relationship with you. Chances are that if she's even talking to you, she saw something within you that she didn't see in any other guy. We women sacrifice so much to be with the guy that we have feelings for and for them to play "Let Me See If I Can Trick Two" is a slap in the face. Some of you guys even have the audacity to be like "She Crazy" when she black out on you. As a woman the simple thought of my sacrifices not keeping you away from common hoes. Can make you go crazy. You guys should know. The moment that a girl your serious about cheat on you. How do you feel? Well we feel the same way but 10x more because women are emotional beings.

Now this if for the guys in the relationships that seem to take some things for granted.
Give your ladies some compliments, make her feel special and etc. Look at your girl the next time you see her. Is her hair laid? Nails look good? Makeup to Perfection? Is her Face Clear? Does she look good if her Outfit? Does she Smell Good? Give her a compliment pulling yourself together is a lot of hard work and this is coming from a woman so I know. We women have often wished to have been men because you guys have it so easy compared to us in this department. We literally wax our eyebrows, almost blind ourselves with eyeliner, but glue in our hair or a perm, and acrylic on our fingers just to "Remain the same chick you fell in love with" and you can even acknowledge it? C'mon now seriously? and for those I like my girls natural type of guys. It still takes a lot of work to keep natural from looking un-kept. Tell her she look good. Slap her booty like ya'll still in high school. Like I told the ladies, continue to do the things you did to get her. Don't get sloppy nor funky. I say this for all the ladies of this world "We love a Good Smelling Man" none of us what to hug musk (Off topic but the truth)

Also listen to your woman. A woman who loves you would never advise you wrong. Some guys have a bad habit of listening to their male friends over their woman. Your "Homies, Bros, and Partners in Crime) in some case aren't who they seem to be and would trip you up faster then anyone else, but your woman wants to see you do your best in life she would never do such a thing.

Hope this Helped Someone.


Love You Guys!

Petals Falling Until Next Time! XOXO!