#DearMe

Dear Tati,

Everything doesn't have to be so serious all the time. Stop taking everything so personal.

 Everyone that you would ride for isn't going to ride for you. It's ok to put yourself first. For those people who can't understand that you need time to get your self together they really don't have your best interest at heart. Your true friends are going to respect the fact that you need to deal with some things solo. Even if that means being out of contact for a period of time. Your going to wake up one day trying to figure out how you got some far away from your self and realize it was because you was so involved in everyone else.

Girl you're beautiful! No matter what anybody tells you or say about you behind your back. Embrace your flaws.

Girl, let that young man go! You would never be more to him then what you are right now!

Just because your angry doesn't mean you have to Spazz out, Spazzing out doesn't show strength but weakness. Sometimes its best to walk away from things when your upset or peep some shade being thrown at you. Just remember you said things you don't mean when your mad.

Stop holding grudges, you not hurting anyone but yourself in the long run.

Love Your Culture! Your from a land of Kings and Queens, be happy that you can say that your from a place that very few people around you can!

Enjoy being Unique, People don't get you and that's ok. One day they would love you because of that reason alone. Stop trying to fit in a picture that your simply not suppose to be apart of, Stay true to yourself and the people who fall in love with the real you is the ones to keep around.

Stop Limiting Your Self, Just because your heavy you and know that your weight doesn't hold you back from your abilities, Flaunt that stuff and join that Track Team like ole girl asked you to.

Stop beating your self up. When you realize that life is life your gonna laugh at most of this stuff.

Blood don't make them family and some people aren't meant to be in you life for ever. Many is going to come and many is going to go. We grow up and a lot of times in the process the glue that stick people together as adolescences fades away. its not necessarily that you have to have issues with people to no longer chill with them sometimes you simply grow out of each other.

Keep trying to be what you in your heart you feel  you will be, the only way that you are going to lose is if you give up. Never Give Up! You going to fall many times and put something's on the back burner many times as well but as long as you don't give up on those things you'll be fine.

Stop trying to grow up so fast, take your time "What's the rush" A few years from now your going to wish you took your time. Rushing it going to get tripped up.

Make a statement in everything that you do. Your you stop trying to dim yourself out.

Say what you want to, don't filter your words. Yes, sometimes shouldn't at times but someone have to say them. Just make sure you know when and when not to say certain things.

This move is going to be the best thing that ever happened to you. Your not going to see it for a long time but the longer you stay away the more you realize that something's / people you need to love from a distance

You think you've been through something, you haven't seen anything yet. Your going to go through something's that is literally going to make you lose your mind or make you strong as steel.

Your talented, don't let anyone down play you!

Some of those people actually see your potential, Stop brushing them off as someone trying to pull your legs.

It's ok to cry, deep down inside your actually a hurt little girl trying to keep yourself from being hurt.

Everything is in God's hands so your going to be alright.

Love yourself!


(It funny I was suppose to be writing this to my younger self but some of these things my present self can still utilize)

Hope this Help someone deal with some inner thoughts, and Feelings they have or had.


Love You Guys!

Petals Falling Until Next Time.