Salmon Cakes and Japanese White Sauce

Salmon Cake in Japanese White Sauce

Ingredients:

1 Can of Pink Salmon
1 Cup of Italian Bread Crumbs
2 Large Eggs
1 Large Onion
Old Bay Seasoning
1 cup Mayo
Tbsp. of Melted Butter
Paprika
Garlic Powder
Shrimp Cocktail Sauce
Cayenne Pepper
Olive or Canola Oil

Directions

Open your can of Salmon remove the bones and place into a bowl. Small dice your onion and put in with the Salmon (You can use Green Onions as Well, I  just didn't have any on hand if I did. Roses trust me it would've been in there like GIRL!!!)
Now in a separate bowl crack your eggs and beat them. (You can do this with the fish, I just don't like the thought of the yolks and the whites not being mixed together equally ) Season your Fish then Add in your Eggs and mix them well as you slowly add your Bread Crumbs and Mix Well.
In a medium frying pan. Add just a enough oil to coat the bottom. Not to much you don't what fritters you just want to fry them on each side and cook them thoroughly.

Section out your Salmon Mixture form them into balls and Pat them into patties. Add them into you Hot Oil.

Now in a bowl Add your Mayo, Shrimp Cocktail Sauce and  Melted Butter then mix those together. Now add your Garlic Powder, Paprika, and Cayenne Pepper and mix well.
I should be like a light Red color and taste Garlicky with a Bite of Spice. Yet it should be smooth and savory. (This sauce works well with Stir Fries and Jasmine Rice, Also with Steak since some places call it a Steak Sauce,  Baked or Grilled Meat and It can also be brought from the store and it's called Yum Yum Sauce)

When your Salmon Cakes are brown on both side and feel firm on the inside they are done. To check the middle if unsure cut one down the middle and check it shouldn't have a wet texture anymore but a dry one.

Now your are done.

Love You Guys!

Petals Falling Until Next Time1 XOXO!

Going All Out in the Bedroom Without a Commitment!

Going All Out in the Bedroom Without a Commitment!

Guys are going to be like "Don't Tell Them That"
This day and age everyone loves a freak.( Let's be Honest) Should you just be a freak to everyone you lay with just because that's what they like or should you keep a boundary of what you do with someone who simply isn't your husband?

My views on this is  many of us are no longer saving ourselves for marriage. So we should at least keep someone on lock that we only do for our future husbands. Being freak doesn't necessarily gets you that man. The saying goes "Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free"? that saying has nothing to do with cows by the way. It true though.

No man or Woman wants to be put in a situation where they realize that every single thing you do with them. Would've done with someone else. There is nothing wrong with standards in the bedroom. Be honest and straight forward like I don't do that without a commitment. Just because ya'll getting down doesn't mean they can invade every single ounce of your body and do what they feel like doing to you sexually. That's how you mess around and get wrongfully labeled as something your not.

Ladies and Gents your sex partners talk. (Let's Be Honest) The shorty you smashed late night. Her best friend/s know all the details. Ladies the guy you let smash his boy/s know all the details. So save your self from being label as a loose freak and hold out on something. So if by chance that person move on to the next you won't be thinking about how all those karma sutra positions didn't keep them.

Stay true to you. Stay protected. Enjoy yourself but give yourself and your partner some limits.


Love You Guys!

Petals Falling Until Next Time. XOXO!

The Outcome of HeartBreak (My Experience)

Many people don't realize what they do when they do someone wrong in a relationship. I have been hurt deeply and it's not the fact of what that person did that hurt me. It's the aftermath of knowing that what I thought I meant to that person was so wrong. The fact that after all that happened that they couldn't at least have been real with me. The fact I caught feeling I can admit was my fault because I knew better but this  "Foolish Heart" of mine.

 I'm sharing this because as always  I am  prefect example of what of some of the things I write about. Heartbreak is no different this is just a run through of what the aftermath could do to someone.

 

I haven't been able to talk to another without feel that they would hurt me emotionally.
When you break someones heart you have to keep in mind that your telling that person that they aren't good enough. That no matter how much they could love you that it meant nothing to you.
I have officially been able to except the fact that it wasn't me who lost in that situation but they did.
It took a while and sometimes it still bothers me that the one time I let my guard down. Was the one time I should've kept it up. I went through the motions of trying to figure out what it was about me that they didn't what, what was wrong with my love. Is it that I was foolish to fall for what now seems to be stupid reasons but at the moment it felt so right, and now it hurts to realizes that only I felt that way.

 I would ask myself is it possible that at one point it wasn't just me,that maybe he felt those feelings to. Then I would think if so then what happened to turn him away from me.

 Ladies and Gentlemen I'm telling you "Don't blame yourself because someone over looked you".
Think about your future and how being with that person would've changed you. Ask your self " If I would've gotten what I so longed for back then would I truly be happy now"?.
It would amaze you of the answers you come up with. For me I saw myself as being contented with life,  forgetting my personal goals, being a mom without a commitment. Probably cheated on constantly, because I didn't have his heart.

I understand that  now, being on the other side of a similar situation I can see his point of view on the whole thing.

Someone could love you and be the right one for you but if your heart isn't their then it just isn't.

I can't blame him for that, As a matter of fact he faked a lot of things with me but for not faking love I am grateful  because  I deserve someone who loves me! Not someone who pretends to love me because I love them and would treat them good. They would never stay true to you if the heart isn't there and it's unfair for them to miss out on true love just because you loved them better.

 Before you decide to do someone wrong, think about what your actually doing. Its better to be real with that person when it comes to feelings then to lead them on. After all thats all it takes in order for a person to start moving on!

 

Hope this Helped Someone

 

Love You Guys!

 

Petals Falling Until Next Time! XOXO!

#DearMe

Dear Tati,

Everything doesn't have to be so serious all the time. Stop taking everything so personal.

 Everyone that you would ride for isn't going to ride for you. It's ok to put yourself first. For those people who can't understand that you need time to get your self together they really don't have your best interest at heart. Your true friends are going to respect the fact that you need to deal with some things solo. Even if that means being out of contact for a period of time. Your going to wake up one day trying to figure out how you got some far away from your self and realize it was because you was so involved in everyone else.

Girl you're beautiful! No matter what anybody tells you or say about you behind your back. Embrace your flaws.

Girl, let that young man go! You would never be more to him then what you are right now!

Just because your angry doesn't mean you have to Spazz out, Spazzing out doesn't show strength but weakness. Sometimes its best to walk away from things when your upset or peep some shade being thrown at you. Just remember you said things you don't mean when your mad.

Stop holding grudges, you not hurting anyone but yourself in the long run.

Love Your Culture! Your from a land of Kings and Queens, be happy that you can say that your from a place that very few people around you can!

Enjoy being Unique, People don't get you and that's ok. One day they would love you because of that reason alone. Stop trying to fit in a picture that your simply not suppose to be apart of, Stay true to yourself and the people who fall in love with the real you is the ones to keep around.

Stop Limiting Your Self, Just because your heavy you and know that your weight doesn't hold you back from your abilities, Flaunt that stuff and join that Track Team like ole girl asked you to.

Stop beating your self up. When you realize that life is life your gonna laugh at most of this stuff.

Blood don't make them family and some people aren't meant to be in you life for ever. Many is going to come and many is going to go. We grow up and a lot of times in the process the glue that stick people together as adolescences fades away. its not necessarily that you have to have issues with people to no longer chill with them sometimes you simply grow out of each other.

Keep trying to be what you in your heart you feel  you will be, the only way that you are going to lose is if you give up. Never Give Up! You going to fall many times and put something's on the back burner many times as well but as long as you don't give up on those things you'll be fine.

Stop trying to grow up so fast, take your time "What's the rush" A few years from now your going to wish you took your time. Rushing it going to get tripped up.

Make a statement in everything that you do. Your you stop trying to dim yourself out.

Say what you want to, don't filter your words. Yes, sometimes shouldn't at times but someone have to say them. Just make sure you know when and when not to say certain things.

This move is going to be the best thing that ever happened to you. Your not going to see it for a long time but the longer you stay away the more you realize that something's / people you need to love from a distance

You think you've been through something, you haven't seen anything yet. Your going to go through something's that is literally going to make you lose your mind or make you strong as steel.

Your talented, don't let anyone down play you!

Some of those people actually see your potential, Stop brushing them off as someone trying to pull your legs.

It's ok to cry, deep down inside your actually a hurt little girl trying to keep yourself from being hurt.

Everything is in God's hands so your going to be alright.

Love yourself!


(It funny I was suppose to be writing this to my younger self but some of these things my present self can still utilize)

Hope this Help someone deal with some inner thoughts, and Feelings they have or had.


Love You Guys!

Petals Falling Until Next Time.

Oxtail Meal

Oxtail Meal

Oxtail

2 Pounds of Oxtails
2 Large Onion
Canola Oil
Salt
Black Pepper
Cayenne Pepper
Creole Seasoning.

Cabbage

1 Medium Size Cabbage
Smoke Neck Bones
1 Yellow Turnip

Directions

Season the Oxtails the night before.  In a Large bowl put washed Oxtails,  A Dash of Black Pepper, A Dash of Cayenne Pepper, A Pinch of Salt ( Only Add a little of each because the Creole Seasoning has it all in it but it just doesn't have enough) Add the Creole Seasoning and Mix into the Meat well and place into the fridge over night.

When your ready to cook the meat. Slice both of your Onions and Place into a large pot now. Add Oil to a pan and Brown you Meat. Add your Meat into the pot. Fill up your pot with just enough Water to cover your Meat. Cover the Pot and bring it to a boil and turn the Heat down to a Medium. (You can cut time by using a pressure cooker, which I often do. All you have to do is Add your oil. Brown your Meat, Add it to the pressure cooker with a cup of water. Cover it and  Set it on High for 45 Minutes)

Once you have set your meat to cook. In a Pot place your desired amount of Smoked Neck Bones into a Large Pot. Fill that pot up with water just above the meat. Bring them to a boil and lower your heat.Once you have done that peel your Yellow Turnip and Add it in your Pot with the Neck bones. Now Cut your Cabbage Thinly.

Wait amount 45 Minutes then Check your Neck Bones and Oxtails. The Oxtails should be tenders and so should the Neck Bones. Continue to let them cook for 30 more minutes. Checking the Often.

When the Meat on the Neckbones are Easy to Pull off and your Turnip is Soft all the way through. Remove your Turnip and Add your Cabbage. (If your cooking the Dark Green Leaves on the Outside of the Cabbage put that end first and let it cook for 10 minutes before adding the Light Green Leaves) Dice up you Yellow Turnip and Place it to the side.

Check your Oxtails. In a small put Pour out a cup of Water and Wash the Scratch out for about 2 -3 Times. Pour some juice from the Oxtails into the Rice Pot. Add some water and Cook your Rice.

Check your Neckbones. Remove them from the pot and Then  Bones from the Meat and Chop it Up. Add both the Meat and Turnips Back into the Pot  and Proceed to Cook for 10- 15 Minutes.

You Oxtails should be Soften and The Meat should be able to come off Easy ( It by no mean should be Tough)

Your Done!

The Time could be cut into Half by Using a Pressure Cooker for Both the Cabbage and Oxtails and a Rice Cooker for the Rice.

Love You Guys!


Petals Falling Until Next Time! XOXO!


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Is Technology Making Us Morally Stupid??

It's a proven fact that Technology has made us smarter in some areas in our lives, but it seems that  were advancing in some ways but lacking in other areas. Have Social Media cause us to lose our senses and compassion to things going on in the world. Here are my views on Social Media and Everyday Technology that are used by the masses (Including Myself) Let's get into it.

I'm going to start my statement off be saying that I to am a Social Media Junkie, But over the years my need for being on Social Media Posting my life story every single day have decreased dramatically. I started to noticed how Social Media was like carrying High School in your Pockets at all times. You have the popular pages with tons of followers and likes, The Cool pages that everyone follows not because they're good but because the person themselves is someone the majority wants to bang (Let's Be Real). The Geek page with Fewer Followers and Likes because the person isn't as popular and they actually post things that aren't has juicy as the Popular Pages or as Superficial as the Cool Pages, and Then you have your page the one page that is a kind in its own category it's like a mixture of all the other pages but for some reason your not really into the mix because you can care less about the Drama all that other crap brings. Is this starting to sound familiar to you?

Okay, so unlike High School. On Social Media you kind of have a general idea of the demon's lurking on the inside of your peers based on the things they post.
 For Example: Most of  my Facebook Friends can probably tell you that a few years ago I went through a very bad heartbreak then relocated to North Carolina from New Jersey just based off of the things I post. I in return can tell you who on my Facebook Page is a Mother or Father base off of what they post. Some people have gone to far with the things they post these days for example. A few weeks ago I came across an article about a young man who killed his classmate and decided "Hey let me Snap Chat this" What was going through his mind? Probably the need to throw salt on open wounds, Maybe he was bragging, or He just wanted to take a Selfie. In  no way am I saying what he did was right but who in the world commits murder then broadcast it on Social Media. That was pretty Dumb Ass Decision.

How about the Guys and Girls that openly flash Drug and Gang Paraphilia. Do these people not know that one thing about our government is that they have access to everyone's accounts. Don't think for a second the your password really means that no one but you can access your accounts. There use to be a time where we wanted to keep certain things private including Relationship Struggles, Occupations, Anything Illegal that we are doing and Other things.

On Social Media I've started to realize that people tend to make fun of things that aren't worth making fun of and I see that parents are starting to video tape there children for the world to see. Your child should not be in a viral video on the internet period. Now a video you share amongst your friends that okay but when you post it with the thought of the world seeing your child I disagree with that. They're a lot of sick people in this world preying on young children, and if Little Zoey is all over the internet dancing and cursing like she grown. There is some sick person watching and some even are plotting on her grown ass. What happened to protecting your children from strangers or even social services?  What you post of your children reflects on you as a parent. Posting videos(I've seen to many) of your child cursing and doing grown people things are no where near being cute. When video such as these are put in the wrong hand you yourself could lose you child only for a few hundred likes and shares.

 I have seen people being laughed at for being ugly when they suffer from skin discoloration , People thinking it funny because a teenager got jumped on video, a girl being raped  and All sorts of things. Where is the Compassion?

We live in a age where technology is at the best it has ever been yet the minds of the people are slowly starting to fall short.

Before some people feel some type of a way I stated that I too love social media, but I have learned that you truly have to be cautious of the things you post and everything is good if it's done in moderation.

Love You Guys!

Petals Falling Until Next Time! XOXO!

Sex and Love: Why the Act or Love is Done, Without the Emoitions of Love! (Updated Version)

Love is an emotion that at everyone at some point experience.  Can you be in a relationship with someone your in love with, without sex? Let's say that something happened to your parthner and you can no longer (Get Down) Would you leave or Step on that person? This question is often one I ponder upon and my answer is In no way should sex or the lack of be the reason you throw away someone you truly love.! See love itself is a strong emotion, One that is often uncontrollable it could cause Kings to forfeit their kingdoms and Good Girls to disobey their parents. True Love can fight through anything, but it is rare to find a striving relationship without sex.

 Sex is a different story though and for both men and women we tend to feel different about sex. Sex is an act based on physical attraction or urges. For guys its both but its more frequent. Guys literally wake up thinking about sex, throughout the day think about sex, and goes to sleep thinking about sex. Whether it's who they want to bone, how they're gonna get lucky that day, past sexual encounters and etc. So some arent  as picky about thier partners.Women are a bit different we think about sex too, but less frequently and its based on attraction to the guy our something he has that we want so we are less likely to except just any partner to satisfy our urges. Keep in mind I'm speaking of average men and women, not promiscuous beings or thots that screw carelessly.

 Some people get love and sex confused believe it our not some people actually believe that you have to be in love with a person in order to have sex with that person, some people actually believe that sex would win over someone elses heart.  Just because he or she may say sweet things or do acts of love in order to get you in bed. Does not mean they actually love you. A person thats in love with you would not just show love when they expect to get something in return.

 Ladies you know, That guy that only contact you at booty call hours to confess so much love for you and somehow the conversation turns into sex talk. He isn't in love with you. He might love you as a person, but he doesnt love you enough to make you an honest woman.

Guys you know that girl thats only wide open for you and loves you when you got things together.  That girl is mainly after your possessions instead of whats in your heart. Moral of the story sex is used for many things these days. It's no longer just an act of love. If emotions aren't involved then sex is sex! You can not win someones heart with it and those who believe they can only set themselves up for heatbreak and other emotional issues.

I'm not saying don't have sex, but I am saying to be aware that many time sex is just that. So look at the whole picture before your heart decides to do that stupid thing it likes to do and jump into into it shouldn't. Also if you really what want the guy or girl on a emotional level. Hold out for awhile the chase is more impressive then actually doing a complete home run. Make that person put in that werk for it! I know guys it would be harder for ya'll but you can do it the whole time your holding out study the person of interest and maybe you'll realize how lucky you are you didn't let them go all the way.  Emotionless sex is how some unwanted Baby Mommas and Baby Daddies are created.

Hope this helped someone and it was a bunch of babble because I admit to revising and old blog before I delete my old page.


Love You Guys!


Petals Falling Until Next Time! XOXO!