Relationships : Privacy is the Key to a happy one.

With today's social media outlets, Its no longer a need of  going out to show pda (public display of affection) or show the world how happy you are with your partner.  The pictures, statuses and videos to confess one's love for thier lover are often uploaded for the world to see, unfortunately everyone in the world isn't happy because your happy. The world is filled with those who want what you have and/or doesn't want to see you happy and would scheme up any plot to get what you have  or break it up.
Very few public relationships last long for every post posted there's a hater plotting, waiting to slip in and fuck shit up! Ever wondered why relationships in the past decades lasted longer? That's because they were more private.  Don't get me wrong there's nothing wrong with media loving your boo! But there's a thin line between being a social media junkie and a under famed/paid reality star!
Not only is social media a problem your associates are too.Ladies until you know who your dealing with, your girls don't have to always know about your man and your details with him. Guys the same thing goes for you! Keep it at a point where everyone know yall together but don't know all your business.  Just because she cooks you a full course meal every day then sex yuh afterwards the world don't need to know that everyday, Just because he spoils you the world ain't got to know that everyday either! Moral of the story keep  everyone guessing about your relationship with your partner and focus on the two of you instead of  impressing the world! Find other ways to express/show your love and leave the pda (public display of affection) for special occasions!