Tuesday, March 25, 2014

The Society: Homeless and Hunger

I find it a shame that in such a society such as America we actually have homeless and hungry people amongst us.
I find it shameful that with all the abandoned property in this state that they're homeless people who rather get thrown behind bars for petty crimes then be cold in the streets all winter.
Believe it or not homeless people are just like you. People who go from pay check to paycheck and at some point those paycheck a stopped and the found themselves in a situation.
Here's the reality about homeless people and who they are. Their the thrown away adults that were once children without a family, The unemployed who at some point worked, The mentally disabled without caregivers and some of the sweets people who could ever meet in your life time. 
I believe that if this society treated there homeless people differently that the world would be a better place. No should have to walk around all day with their belongings, yet they're expected to obtain employment. No one should have to be out to roam the streets at 6 a.m every morning until 9 p.m every night. No one should have to bundle up in the terminals at the bus station when winter hits and No one she have to sleep in a ally way behind a abandon building scared cold and alone. 
For these people they're life is at danger everyday. The are the subjects of hate crimes, rapes and murder. 
Just because they have no home they are treats as stray dogs. The most painful thing is seeing a fellow human being digging in garbage cans for food and sleeping in a train station. 
When they're are property they can clearly stay in instead of letting it go to nothing.
Anyone can become homeless so the next time you see a homeless person think to yourself how did this person get here and if your brave to ask I'm sure you'll realize they're just like you!

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

The Sociey: Hanicap and Elderly

Why are Hanicap ans elderly people treated such ways? Today is going to be a real brief segment being that I'm trying to refere people to this site to see of their legit and its free I would provided a link below so help a sister out after all its free.
Back to the topic the Lord has made everyone prefect in his eyes so why do people treat the hanicap as if they are monsters, forbidden creatures, and less then a human being. Just because they're different after all no two people are the same. We aren't more human then they are nor are we more superior.  We should help them in any way possible and learn how to let them be independent when they want to do things alone. Make friends with them, don't they deserve friends.

Elderly People are the wise. In every other countries they treat their senioe citizens with the up most honor.  Why is it different for this country. It's ashame to see those who have made it so far in life be thrown into homes and left there to be mistreated because their love ones. The ones that they worked so hard to raise and provide for in theie younger days no longer want to put up with them. The elderly are the veteran's of this country they built this country yet most of us see them as a burden! We need to stop ! No elderly person should have to go hunger, be scared, or wonder how they're going to manage. 
A few months ago I lives next door to the elderly lady who always begged for me to spend time with her. Being that I'm the type of person who dont play house hopper I hesitated so one day I decided to go over just to do something nice (my good deed of the day) and I learned that she was the baby of 9 children and she was the only one left. Her daugther jusy syopoed coming to see her and etc.  After laughing and talking and a little makeover she was in tears and said that she felt human again!
It broke my hair knowing that she felt unhuman at some point.

I would talk about the homeless but that's a topic on its own. No one in the country should go homeless nor hunger has the world gotten so money hungry that we have became heartless and selfish? Just something to think about!

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Saturday, March 8, 2014

The Society :Part One-Beauty

I`m going to discuss a topic that many of us avoid to discuss but yet it effects every last one of us and that is "The Society" I have pondered on this topic for a few days trying to figure out what exactly was my motive for writing on this topic.  Did I want to single out the images that society pretty much place for everyone to live by? Or Did I want to take a different approach and discuss how society is screwing up not just our future but our children's future as well. Then it hits me to write exactly what has been on my heart for awhile now and that is everything from what I see, hear, and experience all because of society.

So I`m starting off with society`s image of beauty because it's one thing that effects all women of every age,race and background. Little girls that are as young as four years old are talking about dieting. Shouldn't their focus in the world be on the colors in a crayola box instead of  counting calories, Why at such a tender and carefree age are our daugthers worried about carbs? I would tell you why, Our little girls are told that being chubby is ugly and who is tell them that of course the world is. How many times have you seen a new diet craze on the cover of magazines with some washed up, two pounds away from looking like they suffer from an eating disorder woman promoting quick results that would make us more beautiful. I myself is on the heavy side and honestly I'm 100% for eating healthy and exercising. Truth is the method used to promote weight loss is telling us that a size 2 is more attractive then a size 22, its not just the weight that is marketed to our youth. Hair, We all would love to have beautiful hair, question is what is beautiful hair? Is it hair that silky like Caucasians and Asains or is it  thick and curly like those of african decent. Why is it that very few women go natural these days?  Is it for beauty reasons are personal preference. Is it unattractive to have coarse short hair? Society pretty much say it is, how many African American stars do you see without weave or a perm? Not many but the few you do see, you don't see them being marked as beautiful.

Now that we have discussed society overall beauty standards. My question is why is there standards in the African American Race? After all that our race has gone through. Why is it that we find every way possible  to call our own race ugly.  "Oh she look good for a dark skin female" why is it that our skin color even matter.We are all classified as being of african decent. Our ancestors have fought for freedom and to be seen has a equal to our Caucasian counter parts, but yet we do everything to be like them. We straighten our hair, wear clothes made by racist designers that hate our race but what us to make them rich,  and etc. Funny thought that same race that have stripped us of our self-esteem. Tries to indirectly be like us with their skin tanning, lip and butt implants and etc.

I can go on and on about this topic but I'm going to cut it short. Create your own style and forget societies image of beauty. There's nothing more beautiful then you being who you are, there's nothing wrong with do current things to achieve your own personal definition of what's cool, beautiful and chic. The main question is are you doing it to feel better about yourself or to look good for someone else. Please Comment what you think! Your views are important to me! Love Yall and Stay tune to the next segment on society.

Relationships : Privacy is the Key to a happy one.

With today's social media outlets, Its no longer a need of  going out to show pda (public display of affection) or show the world how happy you are with your partner.  The pictures, statuses and videos to confess one's love for thier lover are often uploaded for the world to see, unfortunately everyone in the world isn't happy because your happy. The world is filled with those who want what you have and/or doesn't want to see you happy and would scheme up any plot to get what you have  or break it up.
Very few public relationships last long for every post posted there's a hater plotting, waiting to slip in and fuck shit up! Ever wondered why relationships in the past decades lasted longer? That's because they were more private.  Don't get me wrong there's nothing wrong with media loving your boo! But there's a thin line between being a social media junkie and a under famed/paid reality star!
Not only is social media a problem your associates are too.Ladies until you know who your dealing with, your girls don't have to always know about your man and your details with him. Guys the same thing goes for you! Keep it at a point where everyone know yall together but don't know all your business.  Just because she cooks you a full course meal every day then sex yuh afterwards the world don't need to know that everyday, Just because he spoils you the world ain't got to know that everyday either! Moral of the story keep  everyone guessing about your relationship with your partner and focus on the two of you instead of  impressing the world! Find other ways to express/show your love and leave the pda (public display of affection) for special occasions!