Living Your Life For You!

Living Your Life For You!

They’re various things in life that can cause us hold back on ourselves. Our family’s opinion of how we should be, societal influences of what is considered a perfect life, and the progression of our peers.

We often feel as if something is wrong with us when other people expectations of our lives doesn’t match what living as who we are actually is.

I already wrote a blog about individuality but now I want to elaborate on the importance of being comfortable with your life not being like everyone else’s because I feel as if there’s a misconception of what we should be like during every stage of our lives.

For Example: Just because everyone is settling down and starting a family during their twenties doesn’t mean that your selfish or irresponsible because you aren’t.

I personally encounter this situation a lot people who literally look at me like “When are you going to have a baby” and judge me based off the fact that I respond with saying “I’m not ready yet, I want to first be able to stand completely on my own two feet before I bring a baby into this world”.

When did your life start to belong to someone else? I ask this question because people tend to judge you based off of their own lives. Just because your friend have a child they tend to low-key make you feel like it’s a negative thing because your don’t have one.

To be completely honest most of the people that judge your short comings aren’t very happy with the life they live. Someone who constantly call you out for always being the single friend. Is most likely in a relationship with someone who constantly cheats on them, disrespect them, or it simply just an unhappy union between two people

You have to discover the things that not only make you who you are but makes you happy about being who you are and indulge yourself in yourself.

For example: I love crafting and for years I haven’t been able to craft. I was going around here feeling empty for along time until I decided to buy a sketch book. That’s when I remembered  that craft and drawing have been apart of my life every since I could remember and without crafting I’m not being me. So now I’m planning on doing a craft haul in the near future so I can indulge in something that makes me feel good about being me.

You have to also realize that its better to do it the right way instead of rushing to do it because someone condemns you for not having it done.

What I mean by this is to Take your time, Invest in your life, and Practice for the life you envision yourself having.

Take Your Time

·         Fall in Love instead of having a lust filled relationship

·         Get that degree or those degrees

·         Work hard at your minimum waged job until you get something better

·         Take Public Transportation until you can afford a car

Invest In Your Life

·         Begin a Journey of Finding your inner peace

·         Eat better

·         Workout More

·         Stay as stress free as possible

·         Buy things that promote self-sufficiency

·         Constantly self-educate

·         Start looking into actual investments

·         Find ways to utilize your hobbies to generate actual income

Practice for the Life You Envision  

·         Become more organized

·         Cook more

·         Clean more

·         Say Affirmation (See Future Blog of Powerful Affirmations)

·         Stay positive

Life is way too short to let other people opinions keep you from enjoying the life that you have.

Hope This Helped Someone!

Love You Guys!xoxox!

Petals Falling Until Next Time…